From Last-Minute Decisions to Life-Changing Outcomes: My Ovarian Cancer Journey!

Today marks the 11th anniversary of the day that forever changed my life.

On May 8, 2013, I underwent a hysterectomy that not only transformed my health but ultimately saved my life. As I reflect on my journey, I want to share my story with you in the hope that it may help others recognize the importance of listening to their own bodies and trusting their instincts.

For years, I had been dealing with what I thought were "normal" female problems—painful periods, cysts on my right ovary, and even a miscarriage at 13 weeks pregnant. My symptoms were so intense that even during ovulation, I felt like I had the flu. Despite these persistent issues, I accepted them as a part of my life.

That all changed when I met Dr. Hutson in Reno, NV. She was the first doctor to tell me, "This is not normal." I can't describe the relief I felt just hearing those words. Finally, someone was acknowledging that my struggles were not in my head, and we began the process of investigating what was going on.

In March 2013, Dr. Hutson performed surgery to check for endometriosis, which I did have severely, along with discovering several fibroids. We also discussed my future plans for having children. The news that I might not be able to carry my own child was heart-wrenching, but at least I had answers and a plan to move forward.

A month later, I made the difficult decision to have a hysterectomy. Initially, I was going to keep my ovaries so I could go through menopause naturally. However, given the history of issues with my right ovary, Dr. Hutson offered me the option to remove it. As I was prepping for surgery, I made the last-minute decision to remove my right ovary, jokingly saying, "Heck, go ahead and take it. I only need one!" Little did I know that choice would be life-changing.

The surgery went well, and Dr. Hutson said the ovary looked fine. Everything was sent off to pathology for further examination. I was on my way to healing and adjusting to my new normal. The first week was rough, but manageable. But on May 8th, everything hit me at once and it finally sank in I would never give birth to my own children. I sat on the couch and cried for the first time since the surgery. Just as I was catching my breath, the phone rang.

It was Dr. Hutson checking on me, and she had news I never expected to hear. "Heather, we got the pathology report back. Your right ovary had a tumor inside it—you have cancer." Time seemed to stand still. After I made calls to my husband and family, I did what many would do—I turned to Google. However, instead of finding answers, it only added to my confusion.

One thing I did discover is that May 8th is World Ovarian Cancer Awareness Day, and 2013 was the first year it was recognized as such. This coincidence felt surreal... i'm pretty sure those chill bumps lasted days after learning this!

I saw an oncologist, Dr. Lim, who performed another surgery to stage the cancer and determine the next steps. Thankfully, the cancer hadn't spread, so I didn't need chemotherapy or radiation. However, I did enter menopause without hormone therapy due to the estrogen-driven cancer and boy was that fun!

Through the years of scans, bloodwork, and anxiety, I remained cancer-free. I will always remember Dr. Lim asking me what led me to remove my right ovary. My answer was simple: a gut feeling. He responded, "You had someone on your side that day because that decision probably saved your life." These words will forever ring deep and I try to remember them when I am down in the dumps, because for some reason I got that 2nd chance to LIVE!!

#WHYTEAL

My journey has been full of ups and downs, but one lesson stands out above all: trust your gut. If something doesn't feel right, it probably isn't. Don't let anyone dismiss your concerns. THIS IS YOUR LIFE AND YOUR HEALTH! I hope it this encourages you to listen to your body and seek answers when you know something is off.

Gettin' Boudie Studio Owner ~ Heather Stanfield

One thing is for sure, I feel blessed beyond all measure and for the most part I live my life to the fullest. I am blessed with an amazing Hubby, "Bonus" daughters, granddaughters, family, friends and now a Boudoir Photography Biz with amazing clients and hope that each and everyone of you know how much I appreciate and LOVE YOU ALL! Thank you for being a part of my journey!!

Now go out there today and KICK SOME ASS ~ H :)